{"id":10072,"date":"2025-04-24T14:08:41","date_gmt":"2025-04-24T13:08:41","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.pdasociety.org.uk\/?page_id=10072"},"modified":"2025-06-19T17:05:58","modified_gmt":"2025-06-19T16:05:58","slug":"in-our-words","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/www.pdasociety.org.uk\/pda2025staging\/research-professional-practice\/in-our-words\/","title":{"rendered":"In our words"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>[et_pb_section fb_built=&#8221;1&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;4.27.4&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; background_color=&#8221;gcid-9868c831-dc08-4be7-96b8-e0cb537cb9dc&#8221; custom_padding_tablet=&#8221;80px||80px||false|false&#8221; locked=&#8221;off&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{%22gcid-9868c831-dc08-4be7-96b8-e0cb537cb9dc%22:%91%22background_color%22%93}&#8221;][et_pb_row column_structure=&#8221;3_5,2_5&#8243; make_equal=&#8221;on&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.27.4&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;][et_pb_column type=&#8221;3_5&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;4.27.4&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; custom_css_main_element=&#8221;margin: auto;&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;][et_pb_heading title=&#8221;PDA in our words&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.27.4&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; title_font=&#8221;&#8211;et_global_heading_font|800|||||||&#8221; title_font_size=&#8221;48px&#8221; custom_margin=&#8221;0px||0px||false|false&#8221; custom_padding=&#8221;0px||24px||false|false&#8221; title_font_size_tablet=&#8221;44px&#8221; title_font_size_phone=&#8221;26px&#8221; title_font_size_last_edited=&#8221;on|phone&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;][\/et_pb_heading][et_pb_text _builder_version=&#8221;4.27.4&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; custom_margin=&#8221;0px||0px||false|false&#8221; custom_padding=&#8221;0px||16px||false|false&#8221; custom_padding_tablet=&#8221;32px||15px||false|false&#8221; custom_padding_phone=&#8221;15px||||false|false&#8221; custom_padding_last_edited=&#8221;on|phone&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;]<\/p>\n<p>Nearly 1000 people responded to our 2023 survey. Four PDAers Riko, Leila, Hannah and Jennifer worked with us to analyse the results and set them in the context of their lived experience. &#8216;In our words&#8217; is the result, a report that has both statistics and stories about what life is like right now for PDAers and their families.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_button button_url=&#8221;\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/The-Full-Story.pdf&#8221; url_new_window=&#8221;on&#8221; button_text=&#8221;Read the full report here&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.27.4&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; custom_margin=&#8221;||16px||false|false&#8221; locked=&#8221;off&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;][\/et_pb_button][\/et_pb_column][et_pb_column type=&#8221;2_5&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;4.27.4&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;][et_pb_image src=&#8221;https:\/\/www.pdasociety.org.uk\/pda2025staging\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/4.-Research-and-professional-practice-landing-page-1.png&#8221; title_text=&#8221;4. 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It highlights things that are going wrong for people, and how knowing about PDA and having people put in the right accommodations helps. It shows the difference that getting it right can make. The case studies in this report show us that life doesn\u2019t have to be as awful as some of the stats suggest just because you\u2019re PDA. Plus, I can tell you myself that I am really happy.<\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_text][\/et_pb_column][et_pb_column type=&#8221;1_2&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;4.27.4&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; custom_padding=&#8221;0px|0px|0px|0px|false|false&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;][et_pb_text _builder_version=&#8221;4.27.4&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; custom_margin=&#8221;||0px||false|false&#8221; custom_margin_tablet=&#8221;24px||0px||false|false&#8221; custom_margin_phone=&#8221;0px||||false|false&#8221; custom_margin_last_edited=&#8221;on|desktop&#8221; custom_padding=&#8221;0px||0px||false|false&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;]<\/p>\n<p>I noticed in all the sections the authors say how important listening is. For me that means listening to what people are actually saying \u2013 not what you think they are saying. So, if somebody tells you they need flexible working hours, take that at face value. 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